Tips for Creating a Headstone Inscription

Select a Specific Person for the Task

Try to limit the number of people involved in choosing the headstone inscription. The involvement of too many people might diffuse the messaging and cause disagreements that bring distress to the process.

Choose one other person and ask for their assistance throughout. You can then reach out to others if you require more guidance. 

Choose a Simple Message

A simple message can carry a feeling more effectively than a complex thought.

Beyond the name and the date, you might consider a short passage from a favorite poem. Or a common phrase that epitomized their approach to life. Simplicity is also imperative in the design.

A simple design with a favorite flower and classical framing can send a more powerful message than a complex design. 

Consider the Emotional Connection

Most headstones read something to the effect of “Loving and devoted wife and mother of…” and while this is a fine sentiment, you may wish to take a distinct approach.

Take the person’s life and work into consideration. What were they known for, and which achievements remain valuable in the present day? Try to summarize this thought in a sentence. You may write, for example: “His kindness and compassion captured the hearts and imagination of many.”

Remember The Person Was Unique to You

In selecting inscriptions, many spend a lot of time crafting complex texts that combine heartfelt meaning with a special sentiment. While this can often lead to compelling headstones, it’s okay to use the person’s unique name and dates on the stone. 

Remember: the wording does not reflect the full extent of your emotion or your relationship to the person, and there can be no substitute for their role in your life.